It might be your issue

Seeing someone do something does not always mean what you think. Similarly, if some people respond in a given manner doesn't mean all will. Learning to identify your own issues starts with confronting them in a novel way. It’s more about personal expectations than another’s character. Who has the problem? Instinctively the world revolves from your vantage point and through the lens of your experiences. As you begin to confront yourself and allow Christ to transform you into the person He created you to be, you inevitably hit juxtapositions of realities. Can you believe your eyes or accept not everything is as you have known it to be.